Deborah Steinberg

Tarot Goodness for the Week of May 21st-27th: The Heart (Suit of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-05-22T07:41:53Z

Ah, there's that giant, glowing, wide-open, exposed, vulnerable, red heart for your viewing pleasure.

Better get used to it, darlings, because the heart will be at the epicenter of most everything we decide to do, express, imagine, plan this week. If the heart's not feelin' it, chances are it's not going to happen.  And if it does happen, it probably won't happen well.

So... have a heart. Don't be an idiot but have a heart.

Alternatively, what the heart will be feelin' will be happening... or at least we'll be planning for that, expressing (communicating, working, doing, performing, helping, etc.) on behalf of that.

On behalf of what? Of the heart, of love-- the real stuff. The stuff that ignites our core-- not illusions and impossible dreams, not romance or "showmance" or chivalry or princes and stallions, not stuff we think we should feel because others say so, nothing imagined.

What we feel is not imagined, is it?

Anyway, what to do, what to do with what we feel...

Aha!

That's... not for me to answer for you. But I will say that that depends on what it is we feel. The Heart doesn't just feel joy and love. The Heart is about feelings and emotions, and there are plenty. (Lucky us!) Emotions vary. And love?

Well, love comes with all sorts of emotions, doesn't it? Because you take the good with the bad? And by that I don't mean hugs and "I love yous" with a side of random vicious stabbings.

You know what I mean.

Love's not an easy ride into a sunset, but then it also needn't be insanely complicated either. It's deep though, and it involves a lot of honesty (with the self and with others) and communication. You know, that stuff that always seems to threaten to eat into important episodes of Jersey Shore?

To be honest, I'm already having a hard time dealing with this card, probably because I tend to enjoy rationalizing more than... feeling. Feeling is OK but too much of it, too much sappy crap is just... (vomits). But a friend just told me her childhood home has been put up for sale. So digesting that news meant a walk home with a heavy heart-- and it's not even a house I've lived in. I've never even seen it.

I just felt it.

I'm gonna make sure I don't watch any ASPCA commercials over the course of the next few days.

The unfortunate side of this card involves a failure to guard the heart, to listen/pay attention to and care for it. It can suffer wounds and breakage, and experience all sorts of hurt, and everything can accumulate in there big-time.

That said, awareness of what's going on in that crazy, delicate, vulnerable space will be key this week. How is your heart responding to choices you've made, or choices you are pondering and may be making?  Does it feel free and excited, or worse and lost?

Whatever we feel, we are responsible for it.

And if we're overly emotional types, well, is what we're getting all worked up over worth it?

I could see how an ASPCA commercial might be worth a couple of tears.

What I will never understand is shedding those same couple of tears over some douchebag.

Regardless, I think that now would be a good time to understand differences in intentions and whether a mistake is truly just that and not some deliberate act.  Because some people are taking to heart the mistakes and excusing deliberate bullshit behavior-- over and over and over again.

And, no, I'm not going to calculate all the reasons why because I don't need to.  Some of these people are big babies with wounded egos. It's really as simple as that.

These big babies aren't exactly cuddly bundles of joy to be around either.

One more thing: I realize that many of us want to be liked, loved, and all that stuff. But nobody is promised or guaranteed that, not to mention that each of us have our own interpretation(s) of love.

(Hm, should there be a 'Philosophy of Love'?)

So, not everyone will like, love or approve of us.

But wait, don't take that from me. Go ahead and take a stroll in the neighborhood and see how many people don't give a shit about your (even my) presence or existence.

Yet, some of us are hung up on a need for approval, a need to be liked or adored or accepted.  At the risk of losing all readers and friends here, why? What is the point?

Is it worth the stress and stupidity?

Let's think about where these "needs" come from instead. Because our value won't increase just because we're liked-- we make our own value go up. Or down. Or remain the same. Or... not-exist (not that there's anything wrong with that).

That others don't like us, love us, approve of us-- none of it should come as a surprise. It's just part of the human experience-enchilada which no one said is easy to be a part of.

Let's get over it already.

Also, expressing and spreading whatever version of love and kindness and compassion we want does not guarantee the same in return.

And, boy, will declarations (words and promises, songs, letters, notes,... e-mails??) of love (or pseudo love-- it depends on what you're all into) fly. Thoughts are gonna count!

All this talk of love, pseudo-love, and how some (or many) of us rely on how others feel about us to guide how we feel about ourselves...  reminds me of a gripe regarding certain members of certain belief systems, or certain belief systems in general. They continually push their love-related ideologies (or agendas), suffocating those who don't feel or understand their versions of love. How? Through a belief that they must not be "lovable" or worthy of love.

If they were lovable, wouldn't they feel the love?

However, this post isn't about my gripes. And I don't want to make anyone's head explode.

Kindness, compassion, love... should be sincerely shared, sincerely received, just plain sincere. Enough with the pressure already.

Sincerity is key. It results in free-flowing exchanges (which we sure as hell need more of) and less stress all around, perhaps even growth and maturity.

The more some expect love, kindness, compassion (all of which shouldn't be confused with basic human rights), the needier, the more clingy, the more desperate and egotistical and bizarre they will come across-- all of which scares or turns others off, and understandably so.

Besides sincerity, know what else would be appreciated at this time?

Gentleness. Tenderness. Time. What the hell is with the rush, and with shoving expectations down others' throats? This will not turn out awesomely.

Some of you may need to take a step back and detach a little so that emotions don't get out of hand this week. And, yeah, they sure can and probably will considering how overwhelming or lovey-dovey energies of the week could become.

Take a time-out or give others one. I think some of us need our personal space.

Now, for the mature among us who are in touch with the needs of their hearts, this week will prove rewarding and/or fulfilling in some way.   The advice here seems to be... follow your heart's desire and feel the love.

But know that your heart's desire doesn't come in the form of Fabio. Your heart's desire can mean something as simple as an interest or hobby or project that's been left on a back burner. Or a conversation that needs to happen, a question that needs to be asked...

Also, ensure that your hearts are clean and pure and ready for the road ahead. That means that any wicked intentions and dead weight will have to go. Make room for what lies ahead.

Intentions matter. A lot. And some of us are very in-tune with those, both within ourselves and in others.

And absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Some hearts will be soaring, and independent. Others will refuse to be toyed with any longer. And still others will be making efforts towards emotional balance, happiness, and/or freedom.

Feelings will be flowing, flying all over the place, friends. Many will express how they feel, it just can't be helped. Dealing with this may or may not suck but, in the long run, I'm sure some recipients will learn to appreciate the honesty.

Otherwise, good luck with that free-flowing, emotion-packed communication (verbal and non-verbal)... or work with it all-- your choice.

Things are about to become pretty, uh, colorful around here.

By the way, heartfelt sentiments will go a long way.

Have a great week!

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Tarot Goodness for the Week of May 14th-20th: The Lightning (Tower)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-05-12T05:44:32Z

To say the least, this week is gonna be zingy. Know the expression expect the unexpected? Well, it could feel like more of a rule for some people because they're not expecting a fall from a very very high perch.

Arrogance tends to do that.

The Lightning/Tower is about jolts via sudden, unexpected changes and news, drama, even some life-changing situations and/or once-in-a-lifetime events. Does lightning go unnoticed? Not usually. Maybe if we're sleeping and don't catch a glimpse of it. Otherwise, if we're just having an innocent little stroll in the park, we're going to notice it.

It's a very powerful thing, lightning. Beautiful and bright is this source of electricity, and yet so very destructive. That's why we don't want to place ourselves in its way-- it really would be a very stupid move unless our intentions are similar to those of Ben Franklin.

That said, we have some dynamic energy at work here that's going to produce serious results, or serious consequences. What we have are powerful people only NOW awakening to the forces they are. The bright, powerful, life-changing forces they NATURALLY are.

This realization (warning ahead) will pose a problem for those of us who have established a sense of empowerment via deceitful or abusive means. This is by-the-book thinking and materializing here, and it's hollow.   In other words, no "meat" (not real meat, vegetarians-- settle down).

Anyway, a couple of little shakes and quakes will be all it takes to show us all just how delicate and fragile and breakable some (and their actions or agendas) will be.

I wouldn't mess with those who are ultra-protected, smart, and insightful... or zappo you go, stopped in your tracks, shat on by a rude awakening.

Same goes for tinkering with some broken or problematic electronics. They're not toys. Leave them in professional hands.

Earthquakes and tremors, roaring thunderstorms, technical problems, damage(s), a rupture-- all are possible with this card, also.

Just when some humans think they're immortal or something, Mother Nature makes them her lil' bitches.   Like structures, we, too, can shake, crumble, and fall if our foundations, and what we're made of, aren't/isn't strong or true enough to withstand pressure [from external forces]...

... all of which will be undeniable and unpredictable. The key here will be to keep from panicking though because that doesn't solve anything, nor does it help anyone.

This is all natural. Lightning is natural. So things are, or will be, as they should be.

Besides, not everyone breaks, crumbles, falls under certain pressures, under certain rule. Some of us may shake but we'll continue to stand, perhaps feeling adrenaline-rushed and stronger than ever. There is such a thing as a tower of strength.

There is also an ivory tower but I digress.

On the other side of the fence, we'll hear a lot of buzz, or we'll generate it. Why. Sudden or life-changing events. The good kind, not just the bad stuff. I prefer to get the concerning stuff out of the way first is all, especially since it could become intense.

Anyway, what this means: prizes or opportunities we don't expect. Rarity, strangeness, weirdness, irrationality. Outbursts. Chaos. Rebellion (and I'm not even sure about what's actually rebellious anymore but f*ck it). Science. Technology. Advancement. Genius. Vigor. Enlightenment, wisdom. Discovery. Ideas. Hearing from or running into someone who excites or interests us. Blasts from the past (great, just great). Innovations. Clarity. Starting over or anew. Feeling bigger, stronger, taller, prouder, more powerful and confident and radiant, like a force to be reckoned with-- all of which will attract amazing opportunities because of the energy or "electricity" some will be injecting into others, into what they do, into their environment.

Things are about to become spiced-up around here.

Some of you done dodged a bullet (or you'll be doing that), by the way. Congrats. Go celebrate.

This is fresh, exciting, stimulating energy. So those of us who were stuck in some kind of rut will be seeing momentum developing all week. Out of your comfort zones you go, off to think and move and make stunning impressions or finishes! Some will be plain unstoppable.

I realize that some may have reservations about the Tower.

However, let me make it clear that the collapse of something unethical, unjust, dishonest, weak... isn't a terrible thing. Sometimes pressure is too great. Some towers contain prisoners, or people who aren't supposed to be in them. So when they collapse, or the power within them does, prisoners have a chance to escape.

And fresh faces can have a chance to lead the way.

Something or someone that/who didn't suit us has taken a leave. Or that thing or person will do so. Or we have taken a leave or will leave it/that person.

Newsflash: we'll survive.

And some of the most valuable lessons we learn do not come from books but instead from doing things our way. Our own special way.

Rise and shine, darlings. Strike a chord.

Have a great week.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of May 7th-13th: The Sick Person (5 of Pentacles/Swords)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-05-07T01:50:20Z

The Sick Person (5 of Pentacles/Swords) represents a time when it's simply good to take a break. To sit back, relax, breathe, and nurse oneself back to good health whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.

Or we can take one of those baths where we scrub ourselves clean twice, all the while visualizing crap from external sources wash off us and slip down the drain.

The 'icks' some feel, after all, are more than likely following a figurative fall in mud.

Well, now's a good time to clean ourselves up, dust ourselves off, take in sound advice and support and bits of wisdom, catch up, and learn from mistakes. Because, again, what some have fallen into is mud, not quicksand.

We can, and some will, rise from murky, disgusting depths.

And this card is about healing and rest. But that healing and rest depends on us, and what we're willing to not hold inside any longer, as it could be making us unwell, tired, stressed, upset. Unless, of course, we want it to spew out like foul green inaccurate grudge-y vomit on Facebook. Or literal green vomit.

What we hold back from saying or expressing is what others will never ever learn about us, or about themselves. And some of that could be really necessary stuff to learn. Stuff we need to know.

Don't worry. Others will be able to read between the lines. Many of us will be able to do so, actually. So we can be a little civilized (or uncruel) in expression. Just...   Let's admit that some of us are done with kissing ass and call it a day already.

At this point, if we have no one trustworthy to vent or talk to about a concern, it's a good idea to pursue professional help such as that from a therapist, counselor, specialist, doctor, etc. Confidentiality is of the essence. Feel free to take your time finding a professional or confidant to suit your needs. And know, too, that some are very willing to help out and successfully and respectfully so.

This week will find some scheduling appointments or undergoing evaluations and tests, particularly any that will bring treatments, healing, or peace of mind or sleep/rest. Finally.

I'm not sure that we're going to be able to overdo anything all week. A lot of us could feel like we've been run over by a truck, literally or figuratively. So if we do overdo it, it's gonna result in some amount of (hospital) suckage because of abuse to our brains, bodies, or spirit-- they can only endure so much.

Pat yourselves on the back for getting things done little by little, and doing the best or most you can day by day. There's time to do it.

While these cards aren't the brightest and happiest of all, there is still a restorative quality to the Sick Person that I like. Sometimes we just need time (in general, or away from routine or any form of toxicity), space, care, and a little less on our plates for us to feel like ourselves again. Like we are in our element again. And we can always use truth, support, direction.

Changes to routine aren't the end of the world.

And may I just remind everyone that... when we are in our element, we feel our best? So we radiate our best to everything and everyone around us? Everything we touch, as sappy as all this comes across?

Feel better.

You'll be fine. Get some sleep, eat some nutrient rich foods, drink plenty of fluids, watch some God-awful TV.   Indulge in recreational activities. You'll miss and re-appreciate the grind in no time.

Heck, some of you are gonna 'make it' even if it's not apparent now. This is most certainly not the last time douchebags will hear your name. They will remember some of you due to the void you've left behind, and it is, indeed, a void to note or kick and scream about.

Cooperate with, and listen to, those who want for you to feel better, to be better, to succeed and triumph and continue fighting that oh-so-good fight. We are not unfortunate specimens who are meant to survive on the pity and charity and supposed favors of others.

Do not feel sorry for yourselves-- care for yourselves.

Enjoy the simple, comforting things, too, while you're at it. Perhaps even a retreat of sorts (or something that will wind up feeling like a retreat). Some of us have endured quite the battle but it's almost over now, friends. And enemies are certainly falling...

Have an excellent week!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of April 30th-May 6th: The Mice (7 of Swords)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-28T22:51:43Z

For some, being honest (with oneself and with others) throughout the month of May will seem a burden, a shock to the system. Not doable. Just not doable because some are just so used to being something they are not, someone they are not, chasing after what belongs to others, keeping super busy, and shitting on others to top it all off.

Because it's hard to keep all the bullshit inside, isn't it? It's just got to go somewhere? How long can some hold it in?

Perhaps we're even used to being polite and tolerant and peaceful, too. After all, people who 'lose' their cool are irrational, right? Uncivilized? Unenlightened? Uncouth? Immature? Idiotic? Foul? Not vibrating from a higher plane or something?

Good luck with that, and with having buttons pushed to their limits. Some will feel robbed, slighted, duped, tricked, disrespected, abandoned, dumped on, violated, and more.

But the whole feeling of having someone stolen from one, that could be all in one's head. Unless we're into viewing individuals (as in partners, friends, and so on) as property.

(Ho boy.)

The cards up there speak of others' weight on one's shoulders, greed, hoarding, guilt, theft/robbery, dishonor, dishonesty, cheating, lying, scamming, slander, blackmail, fraud, corruption, kidnappings and being held hostage, running away, and the likelihood of some getting away with any or all it due to subtlety, loopholes, etc.

There is the chance of loss of what/who we value, damage to what/who we value.   Reputations and relationships could become threatened, done away with, tarnished, too, in addition to what we value.

We've got a number of douchebags on the prowl... or whatever. And they're bored.

Then again, not everyone on the prowl is a bored douchebag. If you're about exposing corruption or setting up to reveal some much needed truth, go for it.

Besides, what we value could be crap, so lightening the load isn't exactly a terrible goal to have. Losing stuff or being forced to do away with it all could be a blessing in disguise.

There is also a threat to peace and security or comfort/what we're used to, perhaps through infestation, invasion, or other kinds of creepy little shocks.

There are some dirty players on the scene. Real dirty players.

Way to go, guys. That's the spirit we all know and love so much!

But knowing is half the battle. So don't forget your condoms, self-esteem, insurance, creativity, and other ~~ammunition~~ modes of protection. Amp up security, whatever that means to you (locks, etc).   Below are a few more tips:

Stick to tried-and-true friendships and relationships now. Don't get too excited about meeting new people and establishing new ties, or getting back together with that asshole ex. This is weird energy we're dealing with (read: gold diggers, excessively needy types, and other drainers and users will be in full force), not the most reliable or ethical energy.

It's more like wake-you-and-rile-you-up energy. But some will sure try to move forward quietly, with acceptance and their pants pulled up, and that's good news. Very good news.

What would also help is not giving a speck of a fuck about what anyone else thinks.

Take some information with a grain of salt as what we learn is just meant to screw with us, and our sense of peace and perhaps happiness, nothing more. Rumors and chit-chat can be that brutal.

Don't share anything (ideas, details, etc) you don't want misused or stolen.

Anonymity or a low-key profile isn't a bad idea.

Watch what you sign, read the fine print, think options over. And over.

Don't walk around like a flashy advertisement for a high-end label. You may as well hand over your possessions to others.

Don't become overly attached to possessions. That's just what they are. They slow down, die, suffer damage, and become stolen.

Don't go overboard with pricing, fees, interest.

This is a time to be prudent with money, not waste it.  Look for deals on purchases-- they're out there.

If you lend money or items, ensure you can afford to do so because it's likely that you won't be repaid or have your stuff returned.

Give without strings attached, share without all those tales of heroism or sob stories. No one cares.

Don't take on a whole bunch of guilt related to loss you couldn't have foreseen or prevented.

If you're planning on swindling me somehow, don't expect any favors or support from me from here on out.

Try to be carefree here, and yourselves. No one else-- it's just not worth it. Use your own ideas, intuition, words, and judgement. Make your own calls.   Ask advice of those you trust-- and I mean really trust.

Go all Macauley Culkin on your space-- whatever it takes to keep pests, mooches and weirdos the hell out.

Some could benefit from working alone or behind the scenes, or they will learn to do so, tolerating and appreciating their own company, ideas, thoughts, etc. The latter stuff will not come easy. Some of us are not used to sitting down with ourselves, with our own thoughts.

As for the rest of you, learn to use or understand the word "no". Do what you can for yourselves, and understand that no one is a superhero or perfect.

May could be a demanding month-- feel free to help others if you can afford to but try not to make things super hard for yourselves. How you handle difficulties will affect others.

Give credit where it is due. And remember: there is a difference between shit-talking and truth-reporting, a tremendous one.

Some honesty expressed, even if it hurts, will come as a relief. Hang onto that integrity. You'll make out fine in the end in spite of any suckage that may arise.

With the Mice/7 of Swords, I think integrity is a theme that will come into play throughout the month of May. And I would watch it with folks who lay it on thick with questions and attention. Some are gonna lay it on thick, real thick, with the adoration, admiration, company, and talk-talk-talk and other shit, and if your ego is a huge and sensitive one, you could very well fall into a trap.

If you don't like feeling robbed, used/abused, neglected, ashamed, and so forth, then you probably don't want to leave any doors open here. Especially not to bullies (who come in all sizes, shapes, ages, genders).

I'm not gushing warmth and enthusiasm right now while writing this post. I don't care for these cards. But I will say that some of us are not going to be taken for granted or pushed around or toyed with much longer, not with these energies. We're not gonna have much of a choice about speaking up or putting our foot down and putting an end to the "party".

Will we learn or gain something valuable this month? Oh yes. Yes, indeedy. With all the boldness in the air, many will go after what they want. And some will get what they want, too. (Hopefully it is well-deserved.)

And whatever some of us lose can be replaced. We can recover from loss, shame, guilt, hits to the ego. It's all good, not the end of the world... But if you hate losing things like keys and credit cards and glasses and such, you might want to be more careful around the placement of these items. Duh.

Good luck! Enjoy your week and your month.

Now on Twitter

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-23T15:46:25Z

Hi all,

A quick heads-up here about my joining Twitter yesterday for the purpose of providing brief daily forecasts. Twitter sets a great boundary for me, preventing rambling and keeping updates/forecasts sweet and to the point.

I know y'all have other sh*t to do. I know. That's part of why I created this feature. And I know you're tired, too, but you don't even have to get out of bed or join Twitter to stay tuned-- just click on the link on the left there whenever you want!

Enjoy,
Deb

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Dammit, I Plucked 2 Cards for the Week of April 23rd-29th: The Children & The Moon

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-22T05:44:38Z

The present moves so quickly, becoming the past pretty much instantly that I'm not so sure such a moment in time really exists. Maybe there's just the past and then the future.

Is there a present moment for a fruit, for example? Or do we rush a little when painting one because its rotting stage is nigh?

Maybe I'm overthinking this shit, too, amirite?

Anyway, the cards of the week make an interesting combination: The Children (6 of Cups) and The Moon. Nostalgia plus emotions. Savoring the moment (gah) and trusting or honing our intuition. Taking it slow and steady with and around the mysterious (whether people, places, things, subjects, etc.).

At best, we could be looking to relive or recreate a pleasant time, a spontaneous, refreshing time. A time that meant something (Moon) to some of us. We could also reunite or reestablish ties with a female (The Moon represents women) or a member of the feminine half of the zodiac (Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces).

Help could come from the feminine. Feminine touches may be necessary to healing.

Healing.

At worst, we could become inundated by memories of a too deep, dark, and/or complex past. Or perhaps it will be difficult for some women or members of the feminine half of the zodiac to accept the truth of their pasts (past decisions, conversations and exchanges, occurrences, etc.), seeing it for what it all was. Calling a spade a spade, as a wise person suggested once.

What we might want to reconsider doing at this point is giving a bullshit-artist too much credit.

We can allow our past to inspire us or drive us into a state of emotional (or mental) chaos. I'd go for the former considering that this week is likely to be yet another sensitive or anxious one, with not much by way of answers, but also one ripe with opportunity and brilliance for those of us who choose to be brave, patient little 'survivors'.

Ripe. That word is sticking, isn't it? Hm, so is "sticky". "Moist" and "soft", too.

Hmm, softness.

Guys, I just type what comes in.

And, well, some of us are gonna be ripe. Sweet and savory and yummy, indeed, as will whatever we manage to conjure up.

Probably not the time to fall for some "remember whens", folks. I can tell you that some feelings today aren't what they were in the past. The Moon is the second card of my deck, and, thus, one of two most powerful and strong cards.

Combined with the Children, I can almost promise run-ins with folks, sights, sounds, smells, tastes, feelings, things from our past, some of which will trigger not-the-best reactions/responses.

Some of us have sure grown, however, and in so many many ways. And we're not gonna fall for crap now, particularly of the manipulative or persuasive kind. If your approach is deceitful (and there is a good chance for deceit with the Moon), I'd think twice about using it, Charm Pants.

Approach and address some as the true grown-ups they have become. Or else.

Good time to develop an outlet for expression, or to use one we haven't used in a while.

Also a good time to stop making excuses for others' behaviors.

Overall, this is not a week to play the fool or become overly excited but rather a time to realize our needs and to protect our identities and how far we've come-- is it really worth wasting away over some tool?

Evenings are power (or highly-charged) times. They may be enjoyable times for some. Night-shifts and/or all-nighters are possible as are potent or bizarro dreams.

This is a time of confidential or secretive plans, stuff, exchanges, behavior circulating all over the place. Not everything is bad just because it is under wraps though. Sometimes secrecy increases effectiveness and especially safety around sensitive information.

Preserve and ponder, trust yourselves (and any hunches), using lessons from the past to guide you during dark moments, and have a most excellent week!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of April 16th-22nd: The Sword (Justice)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-16T03:46:22Z

I mean, yeah, there is strength in numbers. Sure. Of course.

However, there is great stupidity in underestimating an opponent through one's own overconfidence while overestimating the power of one's cute little "posse".

Anyway, Justice/The Sword has other plans this week. As these cards are upright, I'd say the score will be evened up, with others' anger and resistance (or resilience) becoming a problem for some people. I guess it doesn't matter what 'weapons' some hurl at others, with or without reason-- the reality is that said others can, and sometimes will, fight back, defending and standing up for themselves with their own weapons. And sometimes they'll do so unexpectedly.

Justice hasn't, or won't, come easily though. Clearly it's something we'll have to fight or duel for in some way. Alternatively, we may need to sacrifice a bit of our ego.

Even the quote "all's fair in love and war" comes to mind, as annoying as it seems. One issue I'll draw up here is that everyone has their own perception of justice. For example, getting what some feel they deserve (a lifestyle, an opportunity, a car, a relationship, a partner, lotto winnings, etc.) is considered justice, even if underneath it all these folks are simply lazy, entitled, selfish, ignorant jerks.

My parents, and probably your parent(s), worked hard for a really long time. They had neither a fancy SUV nor a nice house surrounded by a white picket fence to show for it. They didn't whine about that, and neither did we.

I'd keep in mind here that a good number of us aren't gonna get what we feel we deserve no matter how strongly we might feel about it. No matter how "good" or "compassionate" or "powerful" or whatever we think we or others are.

We're better off working towards what we can actually achieve versus what we might feel we deserve to have.

Justice isn't about what we feel we deserve. Sometimes what it's about is more along the lines about what is ethical, what should be or what needs to be, plain and simple.

Sorry.

So with dueling swords on one side, and what should be an impartial judge or powerful presence on the other, some could have themselves a court issue or legal matter or battle on their hands. Or something related to dividing responsibilities and/or assets fairly, a process which can flow smoothly if we really want it to.

After all, there is no sense fighting here, is there? Because we will be facing or battling our match?

Some will be battling themselves. We can be our own worst enemy.

Speaking of enemies, if you take a look at The Sword you'll notice two mysterious people lurking in the bushes, just waiting to perform a not-good or not-wise deed. What would be the sense of them hiding otherwise?

This is probably the week to keep away from unknown or seemingly abandoned territory. To stick with the familiar. This is due to some amount of danger lurking in the shadows.

No matter how brave and adventurous some of us might feel, it'll be kinda stupid to place ourselves in harm's way... which will turn out to be no laughing matter.

This is also probably the week to do the 'right thing', whatever that means for each of us. Because we won't know who is watching and waiting for us to f*ck up somehow.

I also sense tattling. Ensure that whatever information comes in is true before accusing others of wrongdoing or becoming suspicious especially of perfectly trustworthy people. Could be that what we learn is simply gossip spread by yet another jealous asshole... or a few jealous assholes.

Well, well, what a surprise there. :: Shrug ::

Overall, in spite of any ongoing or fresh conflict or struggle, something or someone is gonna give/up this week or very soon because we can only stand so long with our swords suspended in mid-air, meeting resistance that is equal to or (at this point) greater than the pressure we're bringing forth.

Someone is bound to tire and weaken as this battle cannot go on much longer, not
without the energy or patience or preparedness necessary to it.

Sometimes pressure is necessary, not to mention some of us work very well under it.

Battles are what we make of them.

Let's try to be fair. Love especially needn't be a battlefield.

Have a great week.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of April 9th-15th: The Train (Chariot)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-08T20:14:04Z

With the Chariot guy in the mix, we're talking triumph, a seriously-badass arrival (nice!) or a badass start to a battle. And by battle, I don't necessarily mean bullets, fire, mass murder, and frightening frontlines. I could very easily mean an argument or confrontation, even a tense discussion that's long overdue. Alternatively, I could refer to some of us preparing to kick some ass somewhere, ending situations on a wonderful and memorable note.

A good number of us are well armed right now, in a way we need to be. So I'm putting this information out there now so that there aren't any misunderstandings later. Also, I'd spend some time in contemplation before telling anyone how to run their lives, how to feel, what they should think or do.

Best way to go: keep from interfering in anyone's life, or standing in their way. Sit back here and either be receptive... or enjoy the show. Heck, have a blast.

Feel triumphant.

The Train signifies journeys, and typically not long ones. However, depending on any delays, problems, annoyances or conflicts (which tend to include others), trips can feel very very painfully long. So long, you might feel yourself age more rapidly than normal, and this is why an itinerary, good reading material, puzzles, games, music (power chargers/batteries), snacks, a knitting project, a notebook, a list of activities, etc, will come in handy.

So I guess what I'd suggest here is... focus on making the journey, whatever it entails, whatever it means (since it may not mean physically traveling), as pleasant and smooth as possible.

I understand that easy journeys don't seem like they are ever worth our time. I get that.

However, it is often more difficult to turn an insane or chaotic journey into an enjoyable and memorable one. Challenges are great. Stimulation is awesome.

But aggravating ourselves, or allowing others to aggravate us until we develop a hernia, is not fun on any journey.  Or worth our time, energy, or money. Remember that frustrations and medical bills can add up. Also, some destinations can suck balls.

With the Chariot, the desire is for control, protection, staying a steady course. In order for this to happen, we need to focus on ourselves, not so much others. Because in the process of getting others to do things our way, we're going to prompt folks to go their separate ways.

I'd find out how in-control we are of your own lives before even considering controlling/dominating others.

Actually, there's no need to try to find this out because the effects of our out-of-controlness will become more and more and more apparent as the week progresses. No shame about any of it.

The Train may alternatively mean that we are well on our way (on the right track) or on the brink of more opportunities. We don't need to take them all up. We don't need to say "yes" to everything. We can pass something up. After all, isn't it nice just to have an opportunity come our way because we're made for it?  Because someone else has deemed us the right fit for the job?

And wouldn't stretching ourselves too thin at this point really make for results that are out-of-control, of questionable or inferior quality?

All that said, this week is favorable for preparing ourselves to meet with challenges, opportunities/trips, and any battles.

It is absolutely not the kind of week suited for charging ahead like a rabid squirrel with guns blazing as doing so will only lead to troubles in penetrating exteriors of armor. It is also not the kind of week for great expectations or passive-aggressive behavior.

Let's try to be direct and honest, remaining well-guarded. No beating around the bush. We know better. And it could be that others might just know better, too.

Have a great week, friends!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of April 2nd-8th: The Clasped Hands (2 of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-04-01T21:14:02Z

"Truce." Ha, yeah. For few, maybe.

For others, not even close though if some are letting bygones be bygones this week, it's because they can't afford to carry on with the same old shit anymore, whatever the word "afford" drums up. Or they're not quite enjoying the not-so-pleasant side effects (arguments, volatility, stress, etc.).

Speaking of that, sensitivity, even hypersensitivity, is a possibility this week so easing up on the wine, beer, sugar, caffeine, salt, whatever y'all know you consume too much of and probably shouldn't... is recommended.

Some may have uber-fancy tastes. However, the price of what is desired-- that's desired, even preferred, not needed or useful or even rational/sensible-- is much too high.

Much too high.

That said, let's try making peace with what we have, and where we currently are. Maybe focus on not adding anymore steaming crap onto the already full crap plate.   I hate saying this again but... let's get real because this is the only way we're going to achieve balance, and have time/energy/funds for what is needed now and tomorrow.

Once things start making sense, reasons to celebrate and enjoy life, enjoy the moment, will come pouring in. Because the old preoccupations and fantasies go out the window. Everything that's unattainable and ridicilous goes out the window.

And, yeah, there are things that are unattainable. Disney may want for you to pine for a happily ever after (it's basically how they make money). But waking up and being a real adult means (besides aging, drinking and spending until you puke) realizing that there are things that are simply unattainable, now and maybe even in the next ten years. Heck, maybe we'll never get something we want.

And we'll survive. I'm not pooping on wishes, hopes, dreams, and barrels of "positivity" and "optimism" here. Just try and keep your dreams, desires, etc, attainable, that you don't drown in your own diarrhea... unless that's what you want. And if that's what you want, fine.

There's a fine line between taking risks and being a dumbass. Also, for the record, the actions, behaviors, thoughts of humanity are not so easy to describe-- "positive" vs. "negative"? Optimistic vs. cynical?

Good luck with that.

All that said, the Clasped Hands could mean a bunch of things: an agreement or contract or deal, making good on a promise, harmony, meeting people, getting hired, a cause for celebration, a milestone, an accomplishment, a connection, networking, friendship, establishing a bond (or reviving or strengthening one), unions, unification, realizing differences (for good or ill), killing two birds with one stone, two for the price of one, one for the price of two, seeing eye to eye, commonality, compromise.

Compromise. Well, well. Isn't that a big word? I've a feeling that we're gonna be doing a lot of compromising, with ourselves most of all. Then our partners or loved ones. How much have we been expecting of ourselves? And is a lot of what we're expecting of ourselves, even others, way way, ridiculously out of reach?

An imbalance (an obvious one) might need to be addressed and corrected here. Beware extremism. Going to extremes could be easier than some might like to think. At the very least, some will behave or come across irrationally. Balanced judgment/ruling, seeing both sides of a situation, therefore, is necessary.

Are we pulling our own weight? Pulling too much?

Some relationships (including friends, colleagues, partners, relatives, parents, etc.) might suffer a little bit this week. Nothing is going to be perfect, a perfect package, and there could be others to think about, whose needs must be put before our super special and out-of-reach preferences.   Sorry.

Let's try to be happy for others, too.

Otherwise, congratulations/best wishes/kudos/yay to some of you out there .

Enjoy your week!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of March 26th-April 1st: The Star

Deb Steinberg — 2012-03-24T18:14:13Z

Oh, how purposeless and hopeless some of us feel without having that thing, person, change, goal, or situation to strive or fight for. Whatever the apple of our eye may have been, it probably wasn't going to become ours anyhow. Whatever will keep us busy and entertained now?

Sometimes doing or saying nothing is putting up a fight. At least against those who want to get a rise out of some of us, who expect an argument or a reaction. My guess is a battle of sorts or person is no longer worth our time or energy. Besides, that person or concern will not be a part of our future, regardless of what he/she thinks now.

That said, sadly, some of us will feel lost this week. Like we've lost.

Others, however, will feel more free. And light. We don't suck so much.

Believe me, we'll have a number of other things to worry about anyway. Priorities. Such as our future which although isn't a guarantee, it's not a guarantee that we won't have one. Might be a good idea to keep from finding out the latter is true when you're in your sixties.

And if you don't have much of a future left, a good one can be left for another.

Whenever the Star comes up in a reading, at the very least we receive a dose of inspiration. Some, if they are so lucky, see the light at the end of the tunnel, which tends to bring in a little clarity and peace of mind.

This is a week of dreaming big-time. Dreaming in our sleep, envisioning while awake. We get glimpses of what lies ahead, mini flashes of insight that still make a big impact in our lives.

Hey, all some need is that little nudge of reassurance that tells us we're going to be OK in spite of not possessing a map.

If glimpses come in the form of warnings, I'd heed them. Some may not be receiving their due for a while, they may not be faced with the consequences of their actions just yet. But they could be headed for a crisis (however it is that we define this term). And what makes a crisis a crisis is that it takes a lot out of us to get out of one. And there is "cry" in crisis.

I generally don't think it's a good idea to rely solely or entirely on prayer, hope, faith, another's good graces, and so forth. This stuff just doesn't work all by itself. So helping ourselves is recommended, and a wake-up call might have something to do with that.

Creative and innovative types receive a boost from this card. Whatever they think or imagine, they may just mold into something tangible. A muse could also turn up. Alternatively, a higher-up (or any "important", famous, or influential person) or mentor could provide support or encouragement in some way.

This card could mean the beginning of a slow, sweet, gradual rise to fame or popularity, too.

Feel free to revive a certain spark as well. If it doesn't work, at least you tried... Maybe it wasn't meant to work out.

Some will need guidance or instruction(s) on where to go from here. So conversations will be necessary. Advice will be sought. Counseling (of all kinds), plans, diagnoses/readings, therapy-- all are recommended.

This is the kind of week some will take advantage of to mentally-fuck with others, screw with their peace of mind. Watch it, and try to keep your sanity in check. Do things to maintain your sense of peace-- even little things we do for ourselves, little changes we make, will make a difference.

Finally, the Star could have to do with astronomy, astrology, fireworks or "fireworks", sparks or "sparks", sparkle or "sparkle" (in one's eyes), glamour, explosions, climax, the death of a star, the birth of a star, stars in one's eyes, the breath of life, anything distracting, a little enthusiasm. For fun even, check out some quotes with the words "stars" and "spark" in them.

Make your mark.

Have a sparkly week! Or, well, at least try and make the best of it. It could be a bit of a doozy for impatient or overly expectant people.

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Tarot Goodness for the Week of March 19th-25th: The Rider (Strength)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-03-19T05:26:20Z

Now, hang on a second here. This week isn't entirely awesome in spite of what things look like up there. Truth is, what some of us could be dealing with is impatience and stubbornness. Maybe ballsiness from others (in other words, determination gone wrong) as well. So stop, look, and listen before you forge ahead, regardless of any sense of urgency.   Consult with he, she, or those who support(s) you.

Rush jobs aren't necessarily good jobs. Coming in first place isn't always best.

There is a sense of urgency for some. I can't figure out what it has to do with on an individual basis but either time is running, an ultimatum will be given, or perhaps an endeavor or goal will be losing steam or momentum.

The thing with the Rider is that that momentum is necessary, as is preparation and careful calculations and planning. See, in order to make that jump over that hurdle up there, we're gonna have to make sure we have what it takes to jump over it. Not just in terms of measurements and stuff like that. The numbers are important. But we also need a good 'horse', and we need to ensure that we're light enough (carefree enough, free enough from unnecessary burdens and/or other sources of 'weight') to make it.

If we're too heavy (demanding, nagging, whiny, pushy, etc), no way are we gonna make it over and ahead. And if some are going to nag, or even try for a position that requires responsibility, I'd suggest making sure y'all actually have all your shit in order.

And making it over the hurdle does not mean completing a lap. This could just be a phase that leads to another phase. Perhaps some will enter a competition that takes a tried and true skill to the next level. I say go for it, and good luck.

Circumstances or choices don't make anyone good or skilled, smart, mature, savvy, or capable of giving some amount of direction. Experience and time and patience do.

Avoiding, or deliberately avoiding or ignoring, the source of an obstacle or a problem will make some weaker and more frustrated... when this is the precise time to tend to the source.  Don't get up and go, or leave, unless there is absolutely no chance of reconciliation or a resolution.

The biggest deal here will be a perceived failure, or a systems failure or crash. A less intense problem or challenge will result from realizing what our limitations are. We are not invincible or immortal. We can't always go where we want to go, become whatever and whomever we want to become. "Dreams" take not just time but money.

And we can't always have what we want to have, especially if what we want belongs to others.

There will likely be an urge to take a risk here. Well, someone will have to make the first move in some cases, or say the first thing to open up the lines of communication after all. For some, taking a risk will be a must.

I hope such risks are small, calculated enough. Or that there is a back-up plan involved, a solid one established over time. A Plan B might be necessary.

This week favors taking small, calculated, well-thought-out risks. Starting small, and then working our way up.

Starting big, taking big risks while lacking foresight or sufficient information or funds, could mean losing big. This isn't about stirring fear in the strong, courageous (Strength card), and confident among us, but about raising smarts. We're gonna need them. And we can't gain them without facing and overcoming challenges. Or if we can't 'fight' anymore, letting things go (which can take a lot of courage).

So the call is for courage, for some in the face of adversity.

The idea here is to keep from setting ourselves up for losing out on way more than we anticipate. Or, if we do lose out that we don't miss any of it. Losing a few gambled dollars, for example, will not do as much damage as losing a month's rent or a mortgage or credit card payment.

Remember that strength comes in forms other than just brawn. These cards aren't so much physical as they are mental and emotional, at least at this time. Could our minds use more freedom from worry and stress? Our hearts more freedom from guilt and other pressures? Because as all these things build up, they clog our ability to move up and ahead, to overcome obstacles. Occasionally permanently.

And the more our brains and hearts endure worry and pressure, the weaker our bodies and/or productivity will become.   And my guess here would be that a lot of us are bringing all sorts of worries and pressures onto ourselves, and no one is to blame for this but ourselves.

Some could take obstacles and situations as personally as they want. That person can be a bitch, and that person over there can be the asshole, and that third person on the corner can be deemed the cause of our problems and/or failures and/or setbacks.

But that's not going to change anything. Neither of those people will reverse the circumstances of the one doing all the blaming.

Only stopping ourselves from damaging ourselves (in an array of manners) will change anything. It is time to reverse the damage (for some this may begin with a sincere apology, for others this will mean recognizing the true source of a problem) and begin to build up strength and courage from within.

No one else is going to tame us, and any destructive or self-destructive behaviors.

Otherwise, these cards will mean a gradual increase in self-belief, a gradual increase in faith in one's abilities to push forward, past a limitation or several. This is essential, or at least it will be. We'll be waiting a long long time for others to believe in us the way we can learn to believe in ourselves. Because we know ourselves better than others know us. We know what works and what doesn't. We know what we can do, what we're good at.

Knowing ourselves, what we can do/put up with, and what we cannot do/put up with will all be the focus of the week. Not an easy week for some, I'm sure. Some will be antsy.

But this might just be a breeze for others as they get the hang of things, and they will be ahead of the game, maybe even ahead of their time. Antsy? They'll burn 'antsy' off with exercise and activity.

Just remember: you can be a go-getter, and you can be ambitious without being an asshole or a bitch. Non-assholey/non-bitchy ambitious types can score big, actually.

Have a great week!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of March 12th-18th: The Keys (Magician)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-03-12T05:26:35Z

"Can't touch this!"

Don't get too excited-- MC Hammer done did trashed a whole lotta money, winding up on a commercial about pawning your jewelry. Still, he showed us the magic of fast-dancing in colorful balloon pants back in the 1990s.

Here's the deal with the Keys/Magician. Both cards speak of great power, for all our tools at our disposal, ready for use. Many of us are ready to work our magic this week, whatever this means (though I hope it's all good). Or at least we are willing to do so. We are trusted, or we trust ourselves and/or others. We are persuasive. We are remarkable. We can win others over with our talents, skills, and charm, no questions asked. (So if you have any interviews or similar events lined up, they may go super swell.)

One thing to keep in mind though is consistency. You can prove to others how fabulous (not perfect but fabulous) you are while all eyes are on you, but so can anyone. What matters here is that we're not pretending to be fabulous. That we're not putting on some act unless we're actors or stage magicians. Consistency is key.

(Ha, get it? Key? And this week's card is the Keys? Ah.)

And in order to be consistent, you gotta be real about matters. They have to be you. They've gotta fit you like a smooth, buttery soft glove, friends. Because the novelty of pulling a bunny out of your butts wears off real damn quick.

Overall, I gather that a good number of us will impress others. We'll make a great, memorable impression, and we're gonna kick major ass due to our resourcefulness, self-belief, confidence, and mastery.

Some of us will believe in others and push them, others might believe in us and push us. Why. Because we can all do more or better. We know we can.

The suckage associated with this card, however, includes con-artists, swindlers, corrupt politicians, not-so-nice priests, phony public speakers, shady insurance salesmen, anyone out to sell you the Brooklyn bridge. (You know, the usual types of morons.) Persuasion, after all, could be a gift or a curse. A big curse. Falling for sales pitches at this point could mean ownership of a costly lemon. Lay out your options and consider them very carefully.

Push should not come to shove. Watch out if it does. Shoves can lead to falls.

Arrogance, or getting way ahead of oneself, can also lead to falls.

Where suckage can turn into danger is when some of us, for whatever reason, don't (or choose not to) see things and situations as they are, and people for who they are.

The word that comes to me is "but". So we'll probably hear a bunch of excuses for this, that or the other. Totally your choice to make or accept them.

Choice is a hell of a powerful thing, especially when a lot of people around the world don't have one. Free will or lack of limitations, my ass.

Anyway, doors open through the use of keys. But keys follow honesty and trustworthiness and capability.

Work your magic, work with the elements, use your tools. Make magic stronger through the help of friends, colleagues, superiors-- any magical people in your life. Opportunities may come through friends or powerful people.

Talk, smile, 'whore' yourselves out a little . Just a little. And have a great week.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of March 5th-11th: The Children (Six of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-03-03T22:21:06Z

The only downside of the week involves people who don't make a fucking choice or choose a stance when they're clearly and obviously called upon to do so, when they absolutely have to or need to because time is running out, due to stubbornness or some weird fixation with the past or how things are *supposed* to be. Either choose to lose out in one small way, to lose something minor, to give up something that is nothing more than ideal, or, if you take too long to decide on something, all the while behaving like a stubborn toddler, lose everything and miss out on some amazing progress. Choice is ours. It is.

There, I said it because I needed to get it out of the way. Also, I said that because this week's energies have so much potential for cooperation, or simply getting things (including what we perceive to be tough or "impossible") done whether alone or within a group.

But here's the thing: let's do everyone a favor and stick to what we do best and how we do it best. For example, if you work better on your own, do that. If you're better off as a team player, stick to being a team player.

If being a part of a team isn't your thing, don't do it. It's pretty likely you'll make others miserable or feel miserable yourself.

If working alone is frightening at this time, then don't work alone. Ask for help. Chances are you'll find it.

If you have no choice but to be a part of a team, understand that this period isn't going to last forever and ever so you don't have to be a grump or big baby about it.  Do what you have to do. The sooner, the better.

There's a bit of nostalgia in play here, all week long. I usually turn this into stories. I don't recommend or expect for you to do the same. You may hate writing stories.

However, I do suggest an activity other than diving into something that no longer is. For example if you felt more free in years past, but now you have tons of responsibilities to contend with, tackling them would mean your freedom. Freedom from a burden. Freedom from the confinement this is feeling you haven't put your all into something or tried at it.

These cards are about workshops, courses, opportunities to teach or improve an area of one's life with guidance or supervision.

Be careful around people who offer way too many compliments or too much encouragement, suggest that this or that is 'fate' or 'destiny at work' too often, or declare 'what a mighty fine and fancy coincidence meeting you here!' I call bullshit on some, if not all, of those little 'surprises' this week.

Stay away from that stuff, or maintain a healthy and reasonable outlook on the concept of fate/destiny, because where we are now (if it's a great place to be) has taken work.  A lot of work for some of us, with little or nothing falling into place like soft puffs of sparkly clouds landing on our palms.

It's fun to think about fate for a few minutes, all fun and games. But let's not push it here-- sometimes I think that if there is too much resistance around a particular goal, if we're pushing too hard, if we're making ourselves and/or others sick, if we're neglecting what or who we should be paying attention to, the goal (whatever it is) is not meant for us. End of that. END.  Of that.

In fact, try to keep away from anyone who makes your tummy turn into a gigantic knot. That's your internal-alert system giving you a heads-up and suggesting that you smile big and confidently, politely excuse yourself because you 'need to run to the bathroom' or 'make a phonecall', and then make a run for it.

Do not look back.

Do not feel sorry for or worry about what or who you have left behind.

Forcing yourselves to get along-- that will show, and obviously it will not show as authenticity. No one should have to feel ordered or obligated to feel anything or respond to anyone (with love, affection, other feelings).   We are not robots. And we are not characters in some sappy romantic or family comedy.

Work with or for children is favorable. Children in general, their health, care and welfare, and education will be big topics all week long. My hope is that most news will be positive, especially since this card is upright. If not, this card will be about hindsight for some, or what coulda, shoulda, woulda been if our priorities were straight versus attention-hungry, psychotic or selfish.

Wonder, ponder, backtrack. Take time to smell the flowers, just don't allow the smelling of flowers to take up too much of your time.

A lot of what we've done, endured, etc., pays off this week (and possibly beyond, probably for some time actually).

Have a great week! Some of you sure deserve it.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 27th-March 4th: The Broken Mirror (Death)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-28T23:11:12Z

Reports about the Death card exist which indicate transition and transformation.

For me, it's about endings. Ending certain habits, ceasing to care, tying up loose ends, grossness (you know, "ew"), taking care of business, tending to death-related documents and concerns, mourning, grieving, resting and sleeping, drawing the drapes, suspension, cancellation, termination, slaughter, horror, gore, anything dark or chilling you can think of, chills, fever, aches and pains, break-ups and divorces, breaking or ending a cycle or term, shitty luck (typically for those who deserve it, boo hoo), the cold grip of winter (which, no, is not over), depression, disease and illness, germs, bacteria, infections, viruses, weeds, diving deep into research or investigation, killing an aspect about our identities (or, well, who we think we are) which needs to die anyway so that we can then (maybe) grow or soar or improve our lives in some way.    See also: mortality.

Wherever it is that we don't make room for life and growth and healing, well, there will be none of that happening. Make sure you make room for it if this is what you want. Make sure as well you're not relying on another person to make you heal in any way, shape, or form.

Most everyone who wishes to put either of these cards under a strictly "positive" light might say "nah, this card isn't about physical death. It's about transition and transformation-- let's all become like butterflies emerging from their cocoons!"

Not so fast, my fellow impatient ones (some of whom shall be left with a premature mess). This card is not about movement and shifting and emerging-- it's about no movement. Ceasing. Cutting stupid or destructive behaviors out. Kicking someone out.  Going "cold turkey". Stopping dead in one's tracks.

This card is about being in the damn cocoon. You don't have to like it, but Death/The Broken Mirror indicates that the cocoon is where we are, and that's where we'll remain until we're good and ready for that 'transition' you're all slobbering over well before it's time (not that I'm surprised).   You might want to understand that a transition needs to be ready for you, too (but I'm not betting any money on that).

Clearly this is not the most inviting and warm energy to work with. But take it easy. Don't push your body, brains, or hearts too hard. Prepare to get cozy and make the best of this situation.

Or go ahead and act in childishly bitter/resentful ways, making things worse for yourself and others. Go ahead and demand out of life what is not meant for you, you ambitious and determined (or ridiculously entitled) little soul, you.

The choice is always our own.

I say that the Death card can absolutely be about physical death. Yes, it can but it probably won't hit too close to home. Close enough though not as close as the Judgement card could. The message of the Death card is raw and cold and gloomy but necessary. And death is something none of us on earth will be able to avoid, it's the one thing we are guaranteed... because we are mortals.

Also, consider food chains/webs. Man may eat a snake (dead). Snake eats mouse (dies).   Mouse, an opportunistic little creature, eats... whatever it can find including insects (that die).

This card represents an area or chapter of our life that is over or coming to an end. We could be planning for such an ending as we speak. It can also mean closure.

Many of us will be passengers, not drivers, in the vehicle that is life this week.

Some will suffer from exhaustion. Emotional, mental, and/or physical exhaustion may become hot topics.

Perhaps some of us are in "outer space" when we need to be grounded and fully aware of, and present in, reality right now. That being the case, I wouldn't recommend popping strong sleeping pills, muscle-relaxing pills, extra-strong painkillers, X, etc.

Try to maintain a nourishing diet, rich in antioxidants.

Remember that we all go through rough periods involving grief, death, illness, injury, separation, trauma, etc. These events break us if we allow them to. A good thing to do might be to talk to someone who has traveled on any of these roads.

And some sure do want to break others through loss and tragedy, or at least evoke fear out of them. Some (continue to) have goals of separation and murder, all of which is a bit unsettling...

Others may experience or hear about near-death experiences.

Slip under the radar if you wish to solve a puzzle or mystery. Drawing up evidence is not going to be easy-- it'll take some time and perhaps a little money.

Stay strong and have a great week! It's one for enjoying satire, mystery, dark comedy, toilet humor, and horror films or novels. Spend time with something or someone that brings a smile to the heart if necessary.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 20th-26th: The Flame (Suit of Wands)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-18T19:51:10Z

I dunno but whatever happened from Thursday through Sunday of last week has certainly propelled some of you into this week with determination, raised spirits, and the warm and radiant energy and passion y'all will need to do what you feel needs to be done. Or said. Signs of passion, interest, enjoyment, and life abound. With the Flame, rest assured as well that some passionate types are gonna be connecting with other passionate types.

Personally, I interpret the Flame to mean the soul or core. So, yeah, souls and cores will be awakening all around, with as bright as ever.

But this doesn't mean that a great big ol' orgy will result so do not fear-- what it means, rather, is that people with common passions, goals, thoughts, perceptions are gonna bring to life certain things, like projects or, well, changes around here for fuck's sake.

Some of you are gonna be glowing when all is said and done. Maybe you'll even get a glowing recommendation? That's one of things we get out of a good roaring fire, isnt' it? The glow? Brightness, coziness, light. Heat. Don't we need heat to cook or, well, get thing's cooking?

Boy, will things be cooking.

Fire also burns and purifies so start throwing whatever shit you can do without for the rest of ever into the damn pit. Work with this element.

My guess-- and it's just a guess-- is that some people are going to be pissed off (at least a little) by the connections that will be taking place amongst people with shared goals. Well, this is what happens when you don't believe in something or someone, and you let them go or ignore them. Eventually someone else will believe in them and in their abilities and add power or fuel or "firewood" to 'em.

So, then, one suggestion will be that we don't allow our silly little useless tempers to get out of control. Think about what a raging, uncontrolled fire does. Tame and control your inner-fire. Exercise. Do something. Put your energy to decent use instead of shitting on someone else, or "hating" on anyone (so not attractive, or effective, and there's really no point to any of that stuff). Jealousy or possessiveness is not going to be "hot" any way you slice it.

Easier said than done considering the hot or controversial topics that come up this week.

Having brought up firewood, I'll add that it is important to feed and nourish yourselves and your spirits and minds and hearts for so long as you wish to keep that fire within alive. No one but you is responsible for your own inner-fire.

Anyway, it's that fire that's gonna get you through the worst, get you ahead, get you where you want to be, so manage it well. Don't overdo anything (which often comes with overestimating oneself). You don't push the Flame, folks. Pushing the Flame means a face-plant sometime after you've told yourself all about how hot, sexy, on-fire, and unstoppable you are.

Either a new interest in something or someone will develop, or an old interest in something or someone will resurrect.

Interest is good. Interest is what will keep us going. If we're not truly interested in something or someone, what more can I say than it will show.

Efforts will be commended.

This card is not about coming across as perfect. It is about showing signs of life. Showing interest. Making an effort. Exhibiting a certain spark. Performing quality work. The point is to learn, and then show that we are learning (or have learned).

Those of us who need a kick in the ass, this is the card for you!

Those of you who can provide a much-needed kick in the ass, this card is for you, too!

Remember that anyone can have an amazing start at something or make a great first impression. The keys are to be genuine and to maintain that amazingness (or be consistent).

Interest and passion produce amazing work and results.

Interest and passion in others can sometimes make them better people. Or better at something because it comes about as encouragement.  That's not a promise or fact-- how you tend to your fire matters first.  But mutual encouragement and support does show. Think about relationships, and how some people might let themselves go and not feel motivated to do anything at all. Why do you think that is?

Not everyone does let themselves go-- some people do accomplish great things, or they better themselves in ways they've only wished. Don't assume that certain kinds of relationships become stale because that's just what happens because your girlfriends or guyfriends or some douchebag advice columnist say(s) this is so. Some girlfriends or guyfriends or advice columnists are stupid, not to mention that even respectable flabby people sitting on their self-proclaimed thrones sell this shit-- and, yes, they're also really fucking stupid.

Besides, if you do let yourselves go, or if something has worsened or is not changing for the better, then this has more to do with a problem that existed before you entered a relationship or partnership.  (Or project, activity, endeavor, etc.) This is why, before we proceed with something that's more important and significant than grabbing that poop-latte at Starbuck's you can't live without, some should probably feel strong and fiery within. That fire, or a lack of it, will make itself known when shit hits the fan. How resilient will you be then?

I guess what I'm trying to say is... don't believe the hype. Stick to what works for you and your relationships. You may even have a niche that's going really great for you, because you're not one of those Oprah or Dr. Phil glorifiers and worshippers who can't think their own thoughts (though watching Maury Povich is fun sometimes). Don't start believing that something might be wrong with you or your relationships because an outsider says or believes this to be so. You'll know it for yourself with this card if your relationships or behaviors are shitty. Oh, you'll know it, because the energy associated with it is direct. There's no guesswork involved here. It's in your face.

It could be that some people are just jealous and/or fucked in the head, too. I mean I mentioned a few cards ago that sweet-talkers are only interested in figuring out how they can stab you in the back, where your weak spots are, and how they can make you look like an awful person-- even though some of us are doing nothing to deserve that. It's kind of like there's a weird and desperate game of survival going on. Skeevy shit's going around, again, and people are gonna be sneaky, but all of this only works on people who are unaware, who have no fucking clue, or who don't make use of their intuition or instincts because they're too busy trying to make the best impression possible.

So my advice then is take certain behaviors and statements with a grain of salt, keep your business to yourselves, don't worry about what power suit you wear, and don't let anyone pee on your parade.

And to those of you who want to know if you'll be successful at this, that or the other, I ask: is there interest and passion present? Your answer to the latter will be your answer to the former. Probably shouldn't do anything for the sake of doing it.

Have an awesome week, fiery friends!

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 13th-19th: The Moon

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-12T20:06:05Z

Unfortunately, I think that even if some cover all their bases via the traditional route-- red flowers, pink hearts, Hallmark card, jewelry, dinner-- gestures may all feel a little half-assed. Because it's what most others are doing so these things lack thought, originality, meaning and any real effort. Calling 1-800-FLOWERS is not exactly difficult.

All of this is due to the energies of the Moon. These are feminine energies that run deep, so, yes, women will be large and in charge and in faces (hopefully not in mine if you know what's good for you). But I suggest thinking deep, too.

Gestures should come from a deep, considerate, wholesome place. Make something for someone else. Make time for a special someone-- not your Blackberry-- over a meal. Talk about each other, not that "royal bitch" or "asshole" at work or about those problems dragging you down, puss face. Show others that they are worth your energy and creativity. Hold hands. Hug. Hold and appreciate each other. Protect each other-- give protection and feel it. Go somewhere you won't have to hear an argument or bitter discussion between another couple unfolding at the next table (there could be quite a bit of that this year-- some people just aren't satisfied). Try to make sure that gifts mean something, that they tell a recipient that you are LISTENING, understanding them, and that you genuinely care about how they feel about things and where they are in life. (This is so very important.)

Sometimes red roses don't cut it. However, maybe that snowglobe that brings the apple of your eye a happy childhood memory could do the trick. If that seems stupid, try a handwritten love letter... or saying something wonderful. You'll figure out how to make others think and feel through what you give them.

The point is, this week isn't about the usual or ordinary or what's supposed to happen. Trust me, with the Moon in play here there will be absolutely nothing "supposed to" about anything. This should have happened-- nope.

This should be this way-- uh uh.

He/she should feel this way about me because... -- not a chance.

It would be wise of us to follow our guts. Honor our intuition and/or exercise it. Be grateful for it, protect it from "vampires". Some of us might learn of "vampires", stalkers, nuts, serial killers, hidden affairs, fucked up intentions, mysteries, and, of course, secrets.

Don't leave yourself open and vulnerable to shit, what else can I tell you here?

Some might be working the night shift. Try to exhibit some amount caution while commuting, traveling, socializing, etc, at night.

Nighttime will be power time. Oh, yes.

Don't make ass-umptions. Don't let anyone fool you into believing something (perhaps about another person) that is just not so, not real.

Careful with drugs, drug cocktails, mixing drugs with alcohol. Taking drugs for stupid reasons.

Withdrawal and/or rehab is probably gonna be necessary for some as certain habits/addictions are showing signs of interfering with your day-to-day routines, and, of course, obligations.

And by the way, I wouldn't take any chances on a big no-no even if I think I'm not gonna get caught ever.

I also wouldn't count on discovering a cause or root to an issue, a behavior or a concern. At this point, some roots and causes don't deserve our worry.

As for other roots and causes, well, we know what they are. Some just prefer to deny it all in favor of something that makes them happy, of making their situations seem pleasant and just fine and dandy.

It is what it is, some are who they are. Next!

Take note of those dreams, folks.

Privacy and quiet (perhaps deep breathing and just a few minutes of meditation each day) make for the ability to focus and ground oneself. It's OK to tune-out (in a healthy way). Draw the blinds, turn off the phones, put on some soothing music.

AS we are dealing with heavier than usual energy, it's normal to experience a somber mood, and perhaps for the waterworks to go on. After all, this IS the cold, very sensitive and intoxicating Moon card, and the scene is dark, somewhat creepy, intimate, maybe sexy. I hope the waterworks come from a sentimental or grateful place versus heartbreak.

But if you do find yourself heartbroken, this is actually a good time for healing, moving on and maturing. Take the opportunity. Sometimes there simply is no closure, it's not something that a magician can or will conjure up for us, and we need to close certain doors and draw up whatever choice or conclusion makes the most sense ourselves.

If you need the help of a counselor for this, that's fine. Some roads can be scary to walk through alone.

Drink LOTS of fluids.

Creative types can turn the week's energies into some amazing writing, songs, art, food/desserts, and other projects. Try fluid movements as well, like those you might find in yoga, dance, martial arts. Why not.

Whatever comes naturally to you is probably the best thing, as is withdrawing.

Have an awesome week!

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Weekend Tarot Goodness: Reversed Queen (Reversed Empress)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-08T07:14:35Z

♪♫ "Psycho mom, psycho mom, psycho mooom..." ♪♫

OK. Maybe we won't all be dealing with a psycho mom or putting out the fire that is baby mama drama but there is still definitely the likelihood of becoming involved in some batshit craziness that includes either another woman, a plain drama queen, a needy/clingy or obsessive/compulsive and/or violent type, earthly destruction, abuse or manipulation, jealousy or possessiveness, nasty gossip, betrayal, victimization, guilt, obligation, or, well, a member of the feminine half of the zodiac (Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, or Pisces). Some people will feel overwhelmed, depressed, unloved, lonely, neurotic, and they may nag and become demanding, aggressive, pushy, feisty, and/or hormonal.

See what I mean about this weekend potentially having the makings of a Lifetime movie now?

And I'm not... What the hell is that word? A misogynist. I'm not a misogynist, and I do have close friends who fit into the feminine slots of the zodiac. So don't assume that I hate anyone here (for example, I think Virgos are awesome), I am just stating the obvious. After all, that is a heavily feminine card up there, it is reversed, I'm going with it, and... that's that.

At minimum, what the reversed Queen/Empress represents is emotional eating, disappointment, and/or dissatisfaction. A void, especially a love-related void. No matter how much some acquire, and how good things look on paper, and how fabulously impressive they feel their Facebook status updates are, all this effort is not going to be enough.

So that when all is said and done, you may hear some people coming up with ridiculously expensive and overall stupid and supposedly-humanitarian ideas and plans that don't make any kind of sense-- not financially, mentally, or emotionally for anyone involved. But, you know, they may turn out to look like heroes and saviors and angels and martyrs, and that's what's important.

This (and perhaps a victimhood complex or two) will all be very interesting to watch unfold. Get your popcorn ready, folks, and sit back and enjoy the show! Someone's about to get a taste of their own medicine. It comes in the form of "fuck no, you're on your own, honeybunch" and it won't taste very good.

I'd suggest watching a romantic comedy or cartoon or something, doing something that makes you feel pretty and reasonably pampered. You don't need a lot of money for self-pampering. Take a salt or bubble bath, light some candles, eat a piece of good quality chocolate (not ass chocolate) slowly, have a glass of red wine, massage some lotion or oils into any bothersome joints or tense areas of the body.

Do whatever it takes to lighten the mood in as healthful a manner as possible (that means not downing an entire bottle of wine in about fifteen minutes) because it could be quite heavy. Not to mention that some of us aren't going to be feeling particularly attractive or sexy.

Others who are used to getting what they want whenever they want are going to realize that their ridiculous plans will be a no-go and that no one is going to be willing to treat them like royalty.

Or, gasp, some will have to start really really (perhaps excruciatingly) small at something this weekend, because they are simply nowhere near a blooming phase. Sorry.

I'd be cautious around temperamental, needy, pushy, overly-ambitious, and insecure individuals. Don't engage any one of these types in any way. Just suggestions.

Some of us may be caring for a female who is exhausted and/or ill.

This card can be about difficulties in conceiving, a challenging delivery or miscarriage. It can also mean the decision to refrain from having (anymore) children.

Be aware of one more thing: these cards indicate that either some "queen" is about to become dethroned, or that someone is aiming to dethrone a perceived queen (that is, an empowered, accomplished, responsible type, or a wife, a matriarch, a boss, etc). How will such an event occur (if it does)?

Well, if said queen or "queen" is caught cheating, lying, stealing, etc, then that person leaves their reputation (and the reputation of others) open to destruction.

That said beware 'loose women' and certain acquaintances who want to get closer. They're a dime a dozen. In addition, there's more to life than cheap, easy thrills, tits, ass, and a sexually transmitted disease.

HOWEVER, (and this is what some really need to watch out for) there is the possibility of just plain nasty women with too much time on their hands attacking the perfectly good reputations of upstanding, honest women, and not in an obvious manner. It will all be skeevy and subtle and syrupy-sweet at first.

Later (or soon), not so much.

The idea is that some idiots want to create a huge cloud of doubt around good, productive people (good women especially) who mind their own business and tend to their work and lives.

This is a tricky energy to deal with. What will seem like innocent, fresh and friendly dialogue could actually turn out to be someone's way of prying into our business and stirring up some kind of trouble. So it's up to us to really wake up, put our intuition to good use, and feel free to be suspicious. Not accusatory-- suspicious. Spidey senses should be up for some. Good. This will set us up on a covering-bases kinda mission.

Couple of more suggestions:

Develop or protect your sense of dignity and self-respect.

Be humble. The more you think you're better than everyone else, the more you'll learn the opposite is true. Don't humiliate yourselves.

Dress modestly, or watch what you are "selling". People only buy what you sell. Don't blame them.

Take and treat your craft, skills, or talent(s) seriously. They are your babies.

Don't be TOO kind and welcoming and accommodating and friendly. Please. Right now I'm hearing about folks who are mistaking a simple arrangement to return something borrowed for the love affair of the century. (I shit you not.) Seriously, those of you who are too kind and helpful and willing to fix the fucked, please start channeling your inner-bitch stat.

There is a lot on some plates these days. And some of us just don't have time for, or the luxury of, any high school horseshit. So try as you may to screw someone over, you could find yourself digging your own graves.

Have a great weekend.

Tarot Goodness for the Week of February 6th-12th: The Children (Six of Cups)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-02-06T05:40:44Z

"Everybody needs his memories. They keep the wolf of insignificance from the door."- Saul Bellow

So this week will be about cooperation, slow productivity, careful supervision, childhood, children, playtime/work that is fun and feels like play, nostalgia, what we could/would/should have said or done, what that person over there could have been to us (because some like to imagine they have control over how others feel), where and who we could/would/should have been, the simple things that bring us joy, and, of course, taking time to smell the roses. This can be a pretty enriching time for some.

I'd suggest we don't allow too many hands to take on one simple project or assignment that can be completed by one person or a small group. Shit can get messy fast.

If you're usually the life of the party, you may decide to sit one out this time around. If you're always a wallflower, you may dive into the fun.

Some may feel enchanted, inspired, reenergized by the presence and/or creativity of someone younger or youthful. (And don't be quick to get pervy thoughts here, folks-- this is not the site for you if that's your bag.)

Others will become motivated or cheered up by memories of their youth. Some may even pick up a box of an old favorite box of cereal at the store for the pure joy of it. Nothing wrong with that!

Reminders of our past come in this week, whether through subtle signs, items, occurrences, and visits or run-ins with people we haven't seen in quite some time.

This is a good card for individuals who work well with children. Same goes for those who wish to work with children, perhaps providing a creative/learning/stable environment, counseling, training, and so forth. Offers and gigs come in, and go out, regarding work with children.

Like it or not, some are gonna be called to spend more time with their own children, and to be more responsible with and around them. I hope some of you don't owe any back child support payments, stuff like that. Be prepared to pull up your pants and start doing what's best for them-- not you.

Keep in mind that there's nothing wrong with taking a trip down Memory lane... unless you decide to live on Memory lane and refuse to confront and take responsibility for real and current circumstances. So if you want to use memories of your past to put a novel together, great. That's just super.

What I wouldn't do is drunk-dial an ex. It's kind of a shameful act especially if said ex has moved on. Same goes for pushing it with someone who is simply not interested in you romantically.

C'mon, folks. No pride left? Slim pickins? What's the deal?

I also wouldn't count on what we had together ten years ago to help make any important decisions this week. The year 2002 is long gone and it ain't about to make a come back.

Take people as you know they are, not who they were, and not who they say they are now. Don't be quick to forgive and hope all will be well this week. You may wind up sorely disappointed.

And some things cannot be undone. Or avoided, like a walk of shame.

That is all.

Enjoy your week!

Weekend Tarot Goodness: The Rider (Strength)

Deb Steinberg — 2012-01-31T22:58:27Z

"I'm the king of the world!!"- Jack Dawson, Titanic

Others will be feeling competitive, free, fit, fierce, and fabulous. Or maybe just fierce and fabulous but the point is that this is how patience, preparation and accomplishment all lead us to feel. Isn't it lovely? Whee.

In addition, we become resilient, more resistant to crap, and we mature swiftly and precisely in necessary areas. Or else. Perhaps some will even begin to lead by example, miracle of miracles!

By the way, if pondering a leadership position the Rider is the card you want behind ya. We're talking dynamic, charismatic, mesmerizing, dignified, commanding, powerful, willful energy through this card here. We're talking people suddenly believing in themselves, and the presence of true and divine power. Some, although they require a certain amount of training still, as they become more disciplined, will feel like they can take on the world.

And I hope they do already because I'm a little tired of hearing and reading about people taking on the world one day... and then whining about all the work and persistence involved the next.

The potentially unfortunate side of this card involves resignation, crossing a serious boundary due to arrogance or anger gone awry, and avoidance of/escaping responsibility and honesty. I mean the Rider is clearly either jumping over a hurdle or a boundary. And we don't really know if he makes it over either one (there is your mystery but forewarned is forearmed).

Being a liar is an entirely different story though. And the worst part is, a good deal of us will be on to who's full of it.

If you like your freedom, I suggest some of you behave.

Folks who are ready to confront a fear, come clean, showcase skills/training or talents, or forge ahead with precision and the right attitude and good pacing, then, will benefit. So will some athletes, masters, managers, leaders, entrepreneurs, and trainers, especially as they help others feel more brave and in-control of themselves, soothing others' inner rage and putting it to good use. Example of good use: turning someone's anger into a muscle-building regimen or self-defense program.

Give direction, obey-- whatever works.

Just keep in mind this isn't overly-aggressive, show-offy, and untamed, all-over-the-place energies we should be working with since they lead to major stupidity, accidents, or stupid and entirely preventable accidents.

So, as funny as someone punching him/herself in the face by accident sounds, try to remain focused/grounded, firm, and assertive, ideally in an environment suitable to growth and discipline.

Let weirdo, asshole, or reckless drivers go ahead of you.

If you want to be proud of your efforts and projects and performance, earning respect, then being in charge of some circus performance ain't gonna cut it. Entertainment, lessons, and creativity really shouldn't come in tacky and/or lazy forms at this point. They need to be rich and satisfying, and carried out in a responsible fashion.

Some need structure, a hobby, an activity, a life, or to be placed in one of those awesome prison-like schools that are prison-like only because they don't allow cellphones and handheld game devices in classrooms. (Wah.)

Others will start to plan for a retreat.

And, just so you know, I'm in no way anti-anger.

I am, however, anti-anger-gone-dumbass. So while there may be opportunity in challenges, I'd suggest not forcing yourselves, your plans, your ideals, your vision, and so forth onto anyone, or attacking innocent folks. People are territorial.

Random irrational and/or violent outbursts may become 'tranqulized'.

Those of us ready to resign from a certain position can use this time to plan for that without a mountain's worth of guilt or fear upon our shoulders. This card means "I'm ready" but, again, pacing and timing matters.

If you're being held back or feel consumed or overwhelmed by anger, resentment, or frustration, and think you might chop the heads off your colleagues (maybe even your own head), now would be a good time to aim to leave an unhealthy situation as soon (and as amicably) as possible.

On the other hand, those of us unwilling to behave or take on a challenge like we know we're supposed to, and for as long as we're supposed to... Well, this weekend might suck royal balls.

The Rider represents big-time can-do energy/spirit that needs to be released and emotions that need relief. That said you probably don't want to be known as a 'deadbeat' or douchebag. (Or maybe you do but this card kinda favors the opposite of all that.)

Do what's correct. If you can't lead and guide here, let someone else do the leading and guiding. Don't lead for the sake of leading or satisfying your ego because a whole bunch of people will result kinda, or ridiculously, fucked up, dissatisified, and/or miserable. Understand that a certain position or place may not be what is meant for you.

Deeply consider life with a "wild animal" (or an emotionally and/or mentally draining or dangerous barbarian).

Keep your own inner wild-child in check.

Or, if you must, summon your inner-tiger because you might need it badly in order to better deal with shit or function in general over the weekend.

You don't need a heavy hand, a weapon, or an intimidating voice and presence to teach/train. Unless, of course, you're teaching/training others how to use weapons, ideally in self-defense.

Those of you watching deadbeats, corrupt douchebags, self-proclaimed leaders/superiors, even lazy partners ride off into the sunset: congratulations.

Many are off to a good start somewhere. Keep it up. Keep up the self-belief, sense of humor, and (healthy dosage of) confidence, too. It's all kinda necessary right now.

Enjoy your weekend!